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Are you wanting a 30 day wellness challenge so you can be feeling your best this autumn? Me too girl, me too. So let’s do it together! I can guarantee that this little challenge is going to make you feel amazing this autumn and winter, and it doesn’t have to be super restrictive or make you feel like a failure if you fall off track. I am going to tailor this challenge to what I’m needing at the minute, but all of these things, if you ... Read the Post...
I went into the Serpent and Dove series with absolutely no expectations because I got the first book for free and had never heard of it before. I feel like that’s the best way to go into a series, with no knowledge or pre made conceptions of it. Your reactions are then 100% genuine in real time with reading the book and you get the full effect. So let’s dive in… I will keep this as spoiler free as I can, however when talking ... Read the Post...
You’re clearly here because you’re asking yourself the question ‘do you get more introverted as you get older’, and girl, I feel you. This blog post is probably going to be chaotic, but just picture your bestie speaking to you as we chat about becoming more introverted as we get older and why I personally love being more introverted. Have you turned into an introvert? So we’re clearly at that stage where every club and social gathering ... Read the Post...
I am writing this as I am on the way to work, currently on my period, so trust me, I know what your going through, and I am going to be giving you (and using) all of my tips on how to get through the work day on your period. Comfy clothing I know some of you may work in a slightly stricter work environment, or maybe you have a uniform you have to wear, however, if there’s anything you can do to make it comfier, it will make your day ... Read the Post...
I couldn’t go a day without seeing bridgerton season 3 all over my for you page on tiktok, or on the main feed of instagram, so I decided to give all 3 seasons a go, and see what the hype was about, it did not disappoint. After getting through the first couple of episodes and the initial uncertainty of whether or not I can listen to this accent for 3 seasons, I was hooked. Watch it: http://Check out “Bridgerton” on Netflix ... Read the Post...
With the glorious weather and good vibes that summer brings, there’s no denying that summer also brings insecurities and thinking that you don’t have a summer body! Before you read any further and think this post is going to be about how to get into the smallest body you can, that is not what this post is going to be about. My interpretation of a summer body is feeling confident, not comparing yourself, no restriction, food freedom, and ... Read the Post...
Going from working part time to working a 9-5 is a huge jump, you slowly realise how little time you actually have. These tips have allowed me to stay healthy whilst working a 9-5 (which is more like an 8-6 with the travel!) 1. Get to work early Whether you are travelling by public transport, or driving yourself getting there early will give you time to relax, do what you need to do, but have no stress because you’re already ... Read the Post...
This was my first time in Italy (more specifically Milan, Verona, and Lake Como), so I am no expert. However, I was super excited to pick all of my outfits for Italy and to share with you ‘Comfortable and simple outfit ideas for your holiday in Italy’ I also think it’s super important to mention that I went in the middle of May, so the weather was just transitioning from spring to summer. There was a few showers, and there was also beautiful ... Read the Post...
It still feels surreal writing this, because I have worked at my first job for almost 5 years, it’s became like a muscle memory, a habit, a subconscious action to work there. I’m sure many people, especially growing up in your 20s, have experienced leaving your first job, so lets talk about it. Handing your notice in Because it is your first job, you will have never had to hand your notice in. It feels like a scary and hurtful action ... Read the Post...
If you are looking for wellness goals to lose weight, find the best diet, and how to deal with restricting food for summer, you’re on the wrong post. This post is all about focusing on how to FEEL our best, rather than look our best. The most important thing, that will still have a massive contribution in the way you look, is taking care of yourself mentally and physically, without worrying about aesthetics. Carry on reading to see my ... Read the Post...
Things we never got over by Lucy Score is extremely hyped on TikTok, which meant I definitely had to read it to see what all of the fuss was about. But that means that I did go into reading this book with high expectations, which isn’t always the best thing. Saying that, I THOROUGHLY enjoyed this book, and completely understand the hype surrounding it. So why did I love it WAY more than I was expecting and what is this book even ... Read the Post...
The lighter nights are coming which means there’s more easy date ideas! You’re not crunched for time, and the weather is getting better (well, a little better in the UK). I have ideas for when the weather is good, and when it get’s drizzly, so there will be options for anytime during spring! 1. Cafe dates There’s nothing easier than a little cafe date. Who could say no to coffee / tea and a cake? This is the perfect opportunity to ... Read the Post...
For those that are reading this post, I know how tough dealing with acne can be. I am going through it right now, and it can really take over your life and your emotions. Through the past 6 months of dealing with acne, I have learnt a few things in learning how to deal with acne. P.s. These things aren’t going to get rid of your acne, but I think they will help you deal with acne, and treat yourself with a little more self love. P.p.s ... Read the Post...
I have recently been on a 3 day trip to London and want to let you know everything I ate, all of the food I recommend (and maybe don’t recommend so much…), but we’ll start with the Food recommendations in London that you need to try! Bon Gusto http://bongustorestaurant.com/ Bon Gusto is in a very good location in Westminster, which was really close to where we were staying which was great! My boyfriend and I have this thing where we ... Read the Post...
Hello fellow introverts, it’s nice to have you here. Todays introvert diaries is about how to navigate presentations as an introvert. Photo credit: Mikael Blomkvist I am starting a new series called introvert diaries, where I speak about anything and everything that us introverts could struggle with, to one, be seen, and two, help others. Let’s go… P.s. Why should you listen to me when it comes to helping you with presentations as ... Read the Post...
As life goes on and I’m getting deeper into my twenties (I’m literally 21 why am I being so dramatic lol), I am constantly looking for easy self care ideas that I can do at home, but also make me feel special. I feel like with every new day becomes another thing that life throws at you, even if it’s just the stress of the unknown, and figuring everything out. So why not take some time to forget about your stresses and do some easy self ... Read the Post...
I read my first fantasy book (The Six of Crows duology) in January of 2023 (as a die hard romance lover) and ever since then, I have been converted and want to read more fantasy books. Don’t get me wrong, I still LOVE a romance book, and will definitely continue to read them, however, now that I have read fantasy, I feel like a plain romance book has to be amazing for me to stay interested. But when you get an amazing romance AND an ... Read the Post...
It’s no secret to the people that know me that Legally Blonde is my favourite movie. I have it studied down to a T, which is why I think I am a credible source in telling you How to channel your inner Elle Woods. Image credits: https://www.vecteezy.com/photo/38221974-reese-witherspoon-78th-academy-award-press-room-kodak-theater-hollywood-ca-march-5-2006 ... Read the Post...
Coming from someone who has an extremely busy schedule at the minute, I have had many burnouts. Making sure that I do everything I can to avoid burnout has been a huge priority, so I am going to share my tips on How to avoid burnout. 1. Plan the work you need to do It’s probably best to sit down at the end of the week or the start of the week and plan everything you need to do. If you don’t know an overview of all of the work you ... Read the Post...
I’m sure a lot of people are here after reading the INCREDIBLE ACOTAR series (I am one of them) and are wondering if the Throne of Glass book series is worth it? Well, I’m here to tell you why it 10000% (in my opinion) is! I don’t spoil any of the massive moments in any of these books, however to talk about a summary of each book, there will be certain things that may spoil the first one. If you haven’t read any of the series, I would ... Read the Post...
If you don’t have a man this Valentine’s Day, that doesn’t mean you cant have the best Valentine’s Day! Grab your closest friends, siblings, or even do it solo! Here’s how to have the best galentines! P.s I would do this every occasion with my gals, it doesn’t even have to be Valentine’s Day! EVERYDAY IS GALENTINES DAY! Galentines date ideas 1. Pottery painting Whether it’s in a studio, or you get pottery to paint at home, this is ... Read the Post...
Have you been struggling to fall asleep? Well, that was me 1 month ago. I was lying in bed awake for hours struggling to actually get to sleep. Now, I fall asleep so quickly and actually feel well rested when I wake up in the morning. Get to sleep better: here’s the perfect night routine. The best thing I have ever heard that put things into perspective when I was struggling to sleep was: If you were going 70mph in the car and tried to ... Read the Post...
We have the perfect top half of your capsule wardrobe sorted (http://bigsisterera.com/how-to-create-the-top-half-of-your-perfect-capsule-wardrobe/), now it’s time to create the perfect bottom half of your capsule wardrobe! Denim jeans To make sure you don’t have bottoms wasting space in your wardrobe, you need to make sure you ACTUALLY wear them. I know (DUH), but I always buy jeans in the hopes of liking them one day… I never do. Do ... Read the Post...
I don’t know about you, but 2024 is the year I am making an effort to listen to more girly podcasts. I really do notice a difference in my week when I listen to more podcasts, especially when I feel like I am getting something out of them. Image source: Unsplash Icons8 & Laura Chouette p.s click any of the photos and you’ll be taken to that podcast! 1. The girls bathroom I will forever be an advocate for this podcast, but ... Read the Post...
For those who didn’t cave in 2023 and buy a walking pad, but are now thinking about getting one, I’m going to tell you if a walking pad is actually worth the money! The benefits of a walking pad 1. It means you don’t have to walk outside when it’s dark I don’t know about anyone else, but walking alone when it’s dark out (whether that’s early in the morning or late at night) is a no no. Having a walking pad in the comfort of your ... Read the Post...
For me, 2024 is all about creating an easier life for myself in every way possible, and that includes creating the perfect capsule wardrobe. Always having something to wear, honestly, sounds like heaven, and I know it will be one less stress I have to deal with! This will be focused on creating the top half of your perfect capsule wardrobe! p.s you can click any of the clothes and be brought straight to the website! Capsule ... Read the Post...
Friendships are hard to navigate, because it’s not like a full relationship, but there are levels of trust and boundaries you need to mutually agree on to keep the friendship healthy. Keep reading to find out How to know which friends to keep in your life. Who to cut off With the new year coming up, this is the best time to reevaluate everyone in your life, and think about who you want to keep, and who definitely needs to go. Sometimes ... Read the Post...
With the new year coming up, motivation is a lot higher, and a great time to start practicing new wellness habits! I believe taking care of yourself is one of the best forms of self love, so these are the top wellness habits you need to add in 2024. 1. Journaling Gone are the days where we bottle up our emotions and feelings. I know talking to someone can be scary, so that’s where journaling comes in. Getting everything out on ... Read the Post...
Struggling on what to get for the men in your life this Christmas? I’ve got you! This will give you present ideas for every man in your life whether that’s your boyfriend, brother, dad, father in law, etc. These are The best Christmas gifts for ‘him’. The Sporty one For the men who LOVE sports, whether that’s watching or playing, I’m sure they have a favourite sport or a favourite team you can tailor these present ideas too. Retro ... Read the Post...
We’re nearing the end of 2023 (how did that happen?) and New Year’s resolutions and goals are forming. Why not get a head start by thinking about the things you would like to change / keep, and lets start doing them NOW. Keep reading to find out How to reinvent yourself for the new year! Photo credit: Disco ball: https://unsplash.com/@socialcut? Cucumber: https://unsplash.com/@mockupgraphics? Dumbbells: https://unsplash.com/@towfiqu999999? ... Read the Post...
Are you wondering why everyone is suddenly converting from drinking coffee to matcha? What’s so good about it anyway? Well, I’m about to answer your question why is matcha so popular and what’s so good about it? The aesthetic As someone who doesn’t drink coffee but wanted the same aesthetic of drinking one, matcha is the perfect substitute! I love the coffee aesthetic, but there are some reasons I didn’t want to drink it religiously. ... Read the Post...
Struggling to find the perfect gifts for the special women in your life? Don’t worry, I’ve got you! This is The best Christmas gift ideas for her! Whether they are lovers of skincare, makeup, wellness, or books, this will have you covered! *disclaimer* I am an amazon affiliate, meaning if you purchase any of the products from amazon, I could earn a small commission at no extra cost to you! The skincare lovers When it comes to skincare, ... Read the Post...
Let’s chat about it, feeling body conscious in the winter. It’s almost obvious, and more talked about feeling body conscious in the summer when you are wearing little clothing. But it’s not talked about a lot during the colder, winter months, when motivation is at an all time low, and comfort foods become more and more reached for. Graphics by Emma Faulkner. Woman image credit: by Ron Lach on Unsplash. Cinnamon Roll image credit: Nick ... Read the Post...
We’ve all been hungover at some point, and it probably won’t be the last time we’re hungover either, so you’re going to want to take notes… as this is THE BEST hungover morning routine. *Disclaimer this is me speaking from experience, not a professional point of view* It starts the day before To ensure you are the most prepared in fighting this hangover, you’ll want to start preparing the day before. Don’t drink on an empty ... Read the Post...
Don’t have any plans this Autumn? Don’t worry, here’s everything you can do to make the most of Autumn! I am making a conscious effort to tailor my plans and the things I am doing everyday, to feel a little bit more Autumnal. Why? Simply because I think being present in the season you are in, as well as changing and growing along with the seasons, is a good way to romanticise life! Here’s how I have been doing it… Pumpkin ... Read the Post...
Girl math is absolutely taking over the internet (mainly TikTok) by storm. But what is it? And why is it so popular? As a girl myself, I feel like I am equipped to speak on girl math (especially my experience) and let you know what is girl math and why is it so popular. *I do just want to preface that this is a humorous post, and I do not think you should take this as financial advice lol* A list of everything in this photo: Firstly… ... Read the Post...
We’re now into October, freshers and the adjusting period is coming to an end, and reality is setting in. I know you’re asking yourself how to keep healthy whilst at uni, so don’t worry, I’ve got you covered. 1. Plan your week On Sunday evening, sit down with your planner and your timetable (this could be your phone or a physical planner) and write down EVERYTHING. I’m talking anything from 5 minute meetings, lectures, work, etc. If ... Read the Post...
We have you covered on the Autumn movies (http://bigsisterera.com/the-best-movies-to-watch-on-netflix-in-autumn/), but now you want Autumn TV shows to watch on Netflix… I got you. 1. Gilmore Girls I bet every mind immediately thinks about this tv series, and for good reason. Gilmore Girls is autumn / fall in a show. The constant cosy, cold vibes. The constant cups of coffee. School / academia vibes. This show has it all. Not ... Read the Post...
Does anyone else struggle with being a people pleaser and a ‘yes’ man? Me too. Let’s work on that together! Here’s everything I’m doing and tips on How to not be a people pleaser. 1. Learn about yourself The first step in not being a people pleaser, is learning what you actually like and don’t like. What you feel comfortable and uncomfortable with. How can I learn about myself? 2. Plan your days How on earth is this going to ... Read the Post...
What are we doing this Autumn to be the hottest versions of ourselves? As a summer baby, it is so sad that summer has ended, but that doesn’t mean we can’t still thrive. Here’s your Hot Girl Autumn checklist. 1. We are getting fresh air in the morning I know summer is over, and the darker mornings have arrived. It is much harder to get out of bed in the morning (all I want to do is keep snoozing my alarm). But, getting fresh air in ... Read the Post...
What better way to get into the Autumn vibes than by watching movies? It is cosy season after all, and here I have the best movies to watch on Netflix in Autumn. 1. Harry Potter If I want to feel all cosy and nostalgic, the first movie I think of to watch, is the Harry Potter series. There no better feeling than hearing the familiar Harry Potter opening tune, and immediately being transported back to your childhood. Quick summary ... Read the Post...
If you ever find yourself asking the question ‘what if my ex was the one?’, then don’t miss out on this post. I’m here to remind you that you are not alone in this. This is a real life story / situation that could be very similar to yours. Maybe it’s you, or maybe it’s one of your friends or family members going through this, and reading this could help you see both sides of the story. As well as offer third perspective advice. P.s. I ... Read the Post...
So, we’re both on this journey to live a softer life? Let’s learn how to live a softer life together with these tips and tricks, to tune out the intense hustle culture, and live a calmer, softer life. 1. Stop being so mean to yourself You know that little voice in your head? I’m sure a lot of us can relate when I say that it can be extremely negative towards ourselves sometimes. Why is that? You wouldn’t speak to a family member or ... Read the Post...
With summer coming to an end, it’s time to start thinking about my Autumn wish list. Not that I need a wish list for every season (I really don’t), but anywho, here are the products on my wish list that I need for Autumn! 1. Rhode peptide treatment Honestly, I have been thinking about getting this for a WHILE. Trying to justify spending money on lip balm, when I have about 100 lip balms already, it quite difficult lol. But there ... Read the Post...
This one is for all of my post grad girlies. Have you found yourself thinking what on earth do I do now? Well, same. Hopefully this post is relatable to you, and helps you feel less alone in this overwhelming and confusing feeling! It’s September… Since we were 3, September always feels like back to school. Summer is over, and we need to get working again. But, for all of us post grad girlies who haven’t jumped straight into work, ... Read the Post...
If I had to choose 5 wellness practices to always make time for, these would be the ones that I would definitely not want to lose! 1. Journaling The benefits of journaling are indescribable. It is one of the wellness practices that I can’t live without! You are working through your thoughts, just like you would when you are talking to someone (but without feeling like you need to hold back out of fear of judgement). How to ... Read the Post...
There’s nothing worse than getting hyped up to read a viral book on TikTok, only to be let down. I am going to save you that problem, and tell you the viral TikTok books that are actually worth the hype. Which books are worth the hype? ACOTAR (A Court of Thorns and Roses) by Sarah J Maas The ACOTAR book series are the most viral TikTok books ever and I will never stop recommending them. I was very hesitant to read the series, ... Read the Post...
Maybe you’re new to the whole relationships thing, maybe you have been with your partner a while and are wondering how to maintain the healthy relationship after the honeymoon phase is over. I am going to give you my best tips on how to maintain a healthy relationship with your partner (coming from someone who has been with my boyfriend for 4.5years). Disclaimer: I am not a professional. If you are in a toxic relationship and need help, ... Read the Post...
I am a Virgo, so organising is literally wired into me, and has changed my life for the better. So I’m going to help you organise your life to change your life. Why will it change your life? It gives you time… Organising everything, (I mean not everything… some things are spontaneous and chaotic no matter what) helps you stay on track for most things in life. Whether thats exercise, self care, food, homework, etc. It gives you ... Read the Post...
Are you sick of neglecting your scalp because you don’t know what to do to make it healthier? Me too. Here’s everything I’m doing, and How to start your scalp health journey. P.s I am by no means a hair expert. This is what I have been doing to notice a significant difference. I have found all of these tips based on my own research and experience! Therefore, the products I will be recommending and the tips I share, will be based on my hair ... Read the Post...
Have a girls night that you are hosting soon and wondering where to start? Don’t worry, I’ve got you. Here’s how to host the perfect girls night! Matching pj’s https://amzn.to/3Eg99y4 Matching pyjamas is the first step to having the perfect girls night. They don’t have to be expensive, look at your local Primark or order online from Amazon!! Why matching pj’s? Even if you aren’t having a sleepover, getting matching pj’s will ... Read the Post...
Podcasts are one of my favourite things to listen to when I am feeling down, unmotivated, lonely, stressed, and many more emotions. But I can always count on them putting me in a better mood! So here’s podcasts that will put you in a better mood. 1. The Girls Bathroom https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6OcHWEbUpO1c5Td1A41f8F?si=e1PzU06ZSLCWGg6ywkQWmw Genre / topics: When to listen to this podcast: Why you should listen to ... Read the Post...
There are a lot of factors that go into healing your acne. Skincare may be something that can only help until you combine other factors. However, when I started incorporating these products and practices into my everyday life, my acne FINALLY started clearing. Before and after pictures Before After I thought would share some before and after pictures, so you can see that it is possible to clear your skin! There is 1 year ... Read the Post...
Maybe it’s half a year into your relationship, and you’re thinking I cant keep going on expensive dates anymore, I need date ideas that are free… don’t worry, I’ve got you! Movie night Who doesn’t love a movie night? They’re probably one of the best ways to get more comfortable with someone, find out what movies they like, and have a cosy evening not having to worry about dressing up. What movies should I watch? Romance Chick ... Read the Post...
Do you ever scroll on TikTok, and watch a creators video of her/him living the exact same life as you, but they somehow romanticise it and make it look better? *guilty* This is because we forget to romanticise the little things. But don’t worry, I’ve got you! Here’s how to romanticise your life… 1. Take your time Whether that means waking up a little earlier, taking your time is going to help you SO MUCH in romanticising your ... Read the Post...
If you don’t want to spend loads of money on beauty products, but you do want good quality stuff that you won’t regret buying… keep reading. These are the 5 beauty products that I can’t live without, and are definitely worth the money! Elf - halo glow liquid filter https://amzn.to/3QtlVk5 I will never stop raving about this product!! Depending on the shade you get, this product can be used in multiple different ways! To top it ... Read the Post...
Who has seen the Barbie movie? I’m here to give you my honest and slightly controversial opinions on the Barbie movie, and answer the question: Is the Barbie movie is really worth it? P.s this may contain spoilers. Is it worth the hype? I was late in seeing the Barbie movie, which meant my for you page on TikTok was flooding with everyone’s opinions on the movie, so I was really looking forward to it. From the hype the movie was ... Read the Post...
Do you feel like you never leave the house anymore because you work from home? Do you feel like you never get any movement in anymore? Here’s how to keep healthy when working from home. Todays blog post is going to be about how to physically AND mentally keep healthy when working from home. It is easy to only think about prioritising our physical health, that we sometimes forget about prioritising our mental health. Here’s a balance of ... Read the Post...
Looking to transform your bedroom on a budget? You’ve came to the right place! Here’s tried and true, affordable room decor that will transform your bedroom on a budget! *all of these products I have purchased myself, and recommend because I genuinely love them* Mirrors Adding mirrors to your room is the perfect room decor to completely change the space and make it appear larger. If you are wanting to make your room look bigger, opt ... Read the Post...
Are you struggling to find the things that make you happy? Do you feel like you are trying to make everyone else happy, that you don’t even know if you’re making yourself happy? Todays blog post is How to find out what makes you happy. Look at your everyday life Make a conscious effort to look at the things you are doing in your free time everyday. You may feel like you are wasting time by going on social media. Or you may be trying to ... Read the Post...
Not every morning is a perfect morning, but the days I do all of these steps, you can guarantee that I feel my best and most productive. I am so excited to share with you A morning routine that will help you feel your best. 1. It starts the night before I will do an in depth blog of the perfect night routine. But for now I will summarise my crucial steps that will set you up for a perfect morning routine! 2. Set one alarm - ... Read the Post...
one thing about me… you will never see me without nail varnish on, EVER. So I thought I would compile my favourite and best nail designs for all occasions. Elegant / classic nails French manicure You can’t go wrong with a french manicure. They go with everything and they look so simple and clean. I always get compliments whenever I have a french manicure, because it is timeless. I think one of the main things about looking ... Read the Post...
Hello! I am thinking of doing a life update every month (don’t hold me to that lol). I feel like it is the best way for you to find out a little bit more about me, and hopefully we can connect and feel closer. For those who don’t know My name is Emma, I am 20 years old, (turning 21 in August!). I made this blog because for one, I love helping people. If I can help just one person, writing about various topics, then I am so happy! ... Read the Post...
Going on a hot girl walk is taking over the internet. If you want to know how to have the best hot girl walk (as well as why they are beneficial), then keep reading! Why are they beneficial? There is a reason hot girl walks are trending, they are so good for you. To name a few things: How to have the best hot girl walk Cute activewear First things first, let’s get ourselves looking cute. There is nothing more ... Read the Post...
You can get Happy Place by Emily Henry on amazon and I would highly recommend it! Here’s the link to go straight to it! https://amzn.to/4bVqqw3 Happy Place by Emily Henry has been on my TBR for too long! I have eventually gotten the chance to read it, whilst I was on holiday, and it did NOT disappoint! P.s There will be a spoiler free review at the beginning and a spoiler version at the end! Rating: 5 ⭐️ Brief summary: Harriet ... Read the Post...
If you are struggling to remember who you are (a bad b*tch), then here’s every tip that helps me, and will hopefully help you feel like a bad bitch. Step 1 of how to feel like a bad b*tch … Self respect There is nothing quite as powerful of a feeling as when you respect yourself and people know that. This could be in any situation, whether it’s in a relationship, a workplace, a friendship, making sure you have respect for yourself, ... Read the Post...
If you are feeling any of the negative emotions listed below, then here are wellness things that actually work in helping those different emotions. I think the first step in helping tackle your negative emotions, is to understand what emotion you are truly feeling. If you don’t know, then why not try all of these ‘wellness’ things to see if it helps? What’s the harm right? P.s. I say wellness as an a general topic of bettering and ... Read the Post...
I have recently been to Crete, Chania, with my boyfriend, so today’s blog is going to be everything you need to know about my holiday in Crete. (And me reminiscing / wishing I was back). P.s. I do just want to say, that a lot of the time for me, it’s not about where you go, it’s about who you go with. I feel like I can appreciate the beauty of a place more when I am enjoying the company I am with. So step 1: get good company lol. The ... Read the Post...
Today’s post is going to be talking all about the pressures of drinking and partying, and how to not feel so pressured to drink and go out. So let’s get into it… Personally, I don’t like going out and drinking very often. I used to think I liked it, and wanted to fit in so bad. But every time I went out, I’d always want to either come home early, get more drunk so that I could catch up to other people and not feel awkward (and then ... Read the Post...
I know it’s already halfway through the year. But it is never too late to glow up! I believe a full glow up includes your mind body and soul, so here’s your perfect glow up guide to do just that! Mind I believe this is the most important to work on, to achieve the best glow up. If you don’t have a good mindset, then I don’t think the others (body and soul) can fully be achieved. I do however think the mind is the hardest to work on. ... Read the Post...
If you’re like me and have just got back from your holidays, and you are feeling a little overwhelmed thinking about jumping back into your routine, then this is the post for you. Here’s how to get back on track after a holiday. 1. Let’s unpack First things first, lets unpack. Depending on what time you get back (because if you get pack at 1am you don’t want to be unpacking lol). But let’s just say you arrived back at 3pm. As soon ... Read the Post...
There is a LOT of controversy surrounding the Kardashian’s, at all times, so todays post will literally be me getting out all of my thoughts about the Kardashian’s, and deciding whether they are actually harmful or not. Disclaimer: this is simply just my opinions, take everything with a grain of salt, remember to spread love always <3 Positives 1. First and foremost, they are entertaining I have watched almost every episode of ... Read the Post...
I’m sure you’ve all heard of the 75 hard trend, but is it actually good for you? And is it worth it? I have tried to do 75 hard before, and ended up changing the rules half way through because I was miserable. However, lets put my own feelings aside, and weigh out the benefits and drawbacks of 75 hard. What actually is 75 hard? 75 hard is a challenge, lasting 75 days, where you follow a set of rules. If you fail to complete all of the ... Read the Post...
This post is mainly centred around evening outfits, makeup / skincare, and body essentials that I am bringing on holiday. Seriously, this is the only holiday checklist you will need this summer!! Evening holiday outfits When it came to packing for holiday, I always focused on outfits that I thought would look good for photos. I never actually felt comfortable and confident in them. The second I ate or drank something, I was sitting ... Read the Post...
Don’t get me wrong, it’s been 4 years since I went on a first date, but I think that also means that what I looked out for worked!! So here’s my first date do’s and don’ts!! Disclaimer: Sometimes first dates don’t go perfect. We’re all human here, and sometimes things go wrong or we were having a bad day to start with and don’t act like ourselves on the date. This post is just to keep in mind little things to look out for. However if your ... Read the Post...
Stress and anxiety are a massive part of life in your 20s. I don’t think I am going to completely get rid of my stress and anxiety, because in your 20s there are tons of opportunities and things that could cause stress and anxiety, but I do think you can definitely reduce it and find ways to overcome stress and anxiety. Narrow down what you have anxiety and stress over Sometimes, I wake up and I’m just feeling anxious for no reason (or I ... Read the Post...
Like many of us, Colleen Hoover was the author that got us into reading (well, she was for me anyway). And since I first started reading in 2021, I have read 9 Colleen Hoover books, which I will be ranking from best to worst! I also want to say, that none of these books are bad! Hoover has the ability to hook you with every book she writes, but when ranking books, some has to go on the bottom! (Sorry Colleen). 1. It Ends with ... Read the Post...
Are you a big sister? This ones for you! I am going to be talking about the struggles and joys we have as a big sister, as well as tips / advice that I have learnt along the way! Let’s talk about the pressures of being a big sister… Setting a good example There is always the pressure of setting a good example. I mean you have a younger sister or brother, looking up to your every move! Whether it’s setting a good example in school, ... Read the Post...
With summer around the corner, I want to feel my best, as I’m sure a lot of you do! I am not aiming to lose or gain weight, or look a certain way, my aim is to feel my best from the inside out! So here’s everything I’m doing to feel my best for summer! 1. Drink more water I have been massively slacking on my water intake and I know that when I do consistently drink more water, I feel better! There are so many benefits to drinking more ... Read the Post...
I know I’m not the only one who gets unbearable period pains. Over the years I have learnt a thing or two in just making the week (especially the first two days) more bearable, and I hope these tips help you make your period better. 1. Have a warm bath This one is an essential during the first day of my period when my cramps are the worst. If I have the time, I will try and take the day off and have a bath. It’s not always possible ... Read the Post...
With summer coming up, there is always the fear of having to wear less and more revealing clothing. So I’m going to give you my best advice on how to feel confident in your body in summer. Firstly, let’s ask yourself some questions You are so much more than your body I want you to think about all of the things that your body has done for you. If you think about the good things, there are so many, I promise you it ... Read the Post...
When I think of wellness trends, I think of unsustainable and honestly unenjoyable things, such as buying tons of Vitamins and cutting out sugar. Well I’m going to give you personally tested, manageable wellness trends that will actually make you better. Cold showers / cold plunging This is manageable because you can just turn your settings on your shower to the coldest setting, after every time you shower and voila. But if you have a ... Read the Post...
I will never stop talking about this book series until I die. This is going to be my thoughts on the ACOTAR book series, with spoilers! ACOTAR has fully got me into fantasy books, and has convinced me to continue reading fantasy books!!! Book 1: A Court of Thorns and Roses My thoughts: LOVE! I went into this book apprehensive because I know how hyped up it is on TikTok, and I had also only read 2 fantasy books before this (six of ... Read the Post...
I’m sure I’m not the only one who feels like they have no clue what they are doing. If you are feeling lost in your 20s you are definitely not alone! This post isn’t going to be loads of tips and advice, or telling you what you should be doing to figure out your life, because I have no tips to give. I have no advice because I am literally going through it right now. See this post as you talking and listening to a friend who is going ... Read the Post...
I’m not going to tell you in this post to restrict your food, go on a diet, eat as little as possible and go to the gym 2x a day. I’m going to tell you everything you can do to live a SUSTAINABLE healthy lifestyle, that is easily maintainable and will benefit your life in the long run. I am not here for diets, long term restricting or torturing yourself through intense workouts twice a day. If that doesn’t sound appealing to you either, but ... Read the Post...
So what is the Sunday Scaries? It is basically that butterfly / anxious feeling you get every Sunday, when thinking about your week ahead. Whether that’s to go back to school or work, or just facing any daunting tasks ahead of you. We all feel this at some point or another, so I’m going to be giving you my best tips on how to overcome the Sunday scaries. Clean your space The Sunday scaries is big on TikTok, and so is the Sunday reset. But ... Read the Post...
Buckle up for this relationship dilemma, because it’s a SHOCKER! Here’s how to deal with your boyfriend cheating on you… with your new uni flat mate. I have been with my boyfriend for about 1 year and it’s been going well. We decided to go on holiday to Greece together and I was really looking forward to it!! We ended up having an argument whilst on holiday, he ended up BOOKING TO STAY THE NIGHT IN ANOTHER HOTEL. So I stayed in our ... Read the Post...
Journaling is something that has helped me massively, and can help you. In this post I will be giving you tips on how to journal, as well as some journaling inspo, because sometimes it’s hard to know what to write! Benefits of journaling So now you know that there are a whole load of benefits to journaling! It’s something I’ve been doing for nearly 9 years, so I feel like I’m pretty good at staying consistent. (I’ve kept diaries all ... Read the Post...
With summer quickly approaching, I thought I would put together a summer bucket list to have the best summer, plus all the outfit inspiration, so you have everything you need right here! Thinking about summer my mind often goes to two places: I can’t wait for the warm weather, how can I make the most of it or what am I going to wear and how am I going to feel confident in smaller clothes? This blog post is going to help you decide the best ... Read the Post...
This post is as much for me as it is for you. See this as my digital diary, I am just going to get out all of my feelings and thoughts about this topic. And hopefully you can relate to this. So lets get into it… why haven’t I found my close group of girl friends yet? So lets talk about my friend history. I was best friends with a girl from primary school, and we remained friends for 10years (up until I was 16). I thought I would ... Read the Post...
*trigger warning - calories, binge eating, diet culture, eating disorders* *I am not a dietician I just feel very passionate and close to the topic of intuitive eating - if you feel you need help please contact a professional* So what is intuitive eating? Intuitive eating, according to the National Eating Disorders Association, is trusting your body enough to make food choices that feel good for you, without the influence or judgement of diet ... Read the Post...
When I think of a soft life, I think of a life of luxury, little stresses, the ability to just float around doing what you want, slow mornings and evenings, enjoying the small things in life, and having freedom. Basically my dream life!! I am not a fan of the hustle culture and working my life away, I want to enjoy my life, especially whilst I am young, because life is so short! But I know that a lot of components of a soft life require ... Read the Post...
Break-ups are arguably one of the hardest and most common situations that people go through. Spending all of your time with someone, to never seeing them is confusing, heart breaking, lonely - overall not a nice feeling, especially if you weren’t the one to initiate it (although initiating it can be hard too). So here’s 5 tips on how to heal from a break up. I was with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years. We were so happy together, spending all ... Read the Post...
Having the perfect morning routine is amazing and one of the first steps to a successful day. But it all starts the night before, with your night routine. Here’s the night routine for a successful morning. Plan your day This is essential to waking up the next day and being less stressed, knowing exactly what you’re doing and being more productive. One of the key things to a successful morning is to plan your day the night before. This ... Read the Post...
Being a student is expensive, and oftentimes uni students live pay check to pay check. I’m going to give you my best tips on how to budget your money as a uni student, how to stay financially organised and smart, and how to still enjoy your life. I track all of my spending and budget all of my money on my notes app on my iPad. There are most likely apps that do the work for you, but I like to write it down myself. I have been doing this ... Read the Post...
I know I can’t be the only one who went into uni with really high expectations, only to be let down because it wasn’t at all what I thought it would be (or maybe it’s just the course I’m doing). Here are unexpected things no one tells you about uni: 1. It can be very lonely sometimes This is probably the biggest one for me. I went into uni so excited, ready to have the best time ever and always be with people (similar to school). But my ... Read the Post...
Pilates is taking over the internet by storm. It is all over my for you page on TikTok, and I am here to tell you the reasons why Pilates is so popular. When seeing all of the biggest celebrities doing Pilates, it made me curious as to what was so good about it. Here’s what I found out from researching, as well as what I have experienced myself trying Pilates for the past few months. 1. Pilates is low impact Pilates is slow and ... Read the Post...
If only there was a way to wake up and be ready to leave the door, feeling your best, without having to put so much effort into it every day. Well I’m here to tell you how to be be high maintenance, so you can be low maintenance everyday. Heatless curls I have tried many variations of heatless curls; Each one creates unique curls. I personally like the silk heatless curl rod the best, because of the thicker rod on my thinner hair, ... Read the Post...
What you need to do if you hate your boss. We’ve all been in this situation before and it can really affect your days, weeks, years of going into your workplace. There is nothing worse than seeing your amazing co workers, or working on something your passionate about (or just trying to earn money), and having this looming feeling of anxiety, over-powering all of the good things you look forward to with work, just because of your ... Read the Post...
If you’ve came to this page - firstly, I’m sorry, because I know how crushing having acne/spots can be on your self confidence. I will be going through everything I did to get rid of my acne in 4 months. Looking back now, with relatively clear skin, it always feels worse than it looks. I can honestly tell you that I never think less about anyone if they have ‘bad’ skin, whatever you personally define as bad. I hope me showing you these ... Read the Post...
I’m so excited to be talking about the rollercoaster of the Magnolia Parks series! This February I decided to read the Magnolia Parks series, by Jessa Hastings. It has been on my TBR for a WHILE! I heard these books are like Gossip Girl and Made in Chelsea morphed into one, which sounded AMAZING! This is a very controversial book series not everyone is going to like, but I LOVED. And here’s why… (mostly spoiler free). *Disclaimer there are ... Read the Post...
